Tabs I’ve opened Summer 2019, and wanted to review (But haven’t yet?) I tend to be busy and can not address these links that I have come across, and then end up procrastinating, or just do not transfer to a desktop to better review them.
This was pretty much just July (2nd half?) and the first week of August. I lost at least 40 tabs after adding these (“Summer 2019” may go back as far as April when I picked up my new phone). I figured I’d go ahead and put this out there. I may never even get to these. Or at least not “soon”, feel free to add comments for me to think about as I go through these.
- Why The Rehabilitation Of Plagiarist Johann Hari Is Irresponsible & Dangerous: Plagiarism, clickbait vs deep info: Drugs, depression, isolation vs community ***Depression*** ***Mental health*** ***Drugs*** ***Community*** ***Responsibility***
- Chasing the Scream: The Opposite of Addiction is Connection (the first and last days of the war on drugs) – March 1, 2016by Johann Hari (Author)
- Lost Connections: Why You’re Depressed and How to Find Hope – January 23, 2018 by Johann Hari (Author)
- Conflict Is Not Abuse: Overstating Harm, Community Responsibility, and the Duty of Repair Paperback – October 4, 2016by Sarah Schulman
- Clickbait vs click bait
- Jimmy Carter: World at “turning point,” must commit to peace — 6/20/2016 — also a Washington Post Article ***Peace*** ***Possibly Interesting***
- Veteran with PTSD writes powerful book ‘why is dad so mad?’ to help explain the disorder to his young daughter (Upworthy) — 7/19/2019 ***PTSD*** ***Anger*** ***Trauma***
- The story of Ubuntu: “Humanity to others” (African word)
- Unapologetically owning your sexuality doesn’t make you a hoe or prude – xoNecole ***Sex*** ***Empowered***
- KC Zine Con
- A survey found that lesbians give women way more orgasms than men. Wonder why? — The XX factor by Christina Cauterucci (Slate) — February 24, 2017 ***Sex*** ***Romance***
- “how to have kinky sex during pregnancy, According to an expert” By Jamie Kenney — Romper July 2019 — Why aren’t we talking about kinky sex during pregnancy? ***Sex*** ***Romance*** ***Kink***
- The Physics of Rigging for a Freestanding Aerial Rig — The Fly Wire: Issue 4: Dilbert L Hall — July 25, 2014 — also Pulley Systems @ Ludwigs ***Rigging*** ***Aerial***
- Aerial rigging what’s a kN? ***Rigging*** ***Aerial***
- Project Veritas Re-Uploads Google Espose Taken Down By YouTube Ahead of White House Social Media Summit –(July 11, 2019) Fearmongering? Conspiracy theory? Truth? — Seems interesting that Google Can’t modify the algorithm, but they can tweak, filter, and adjust weights for this ***Conspiracy theory*** ***Google*** ***Politics*** ***Gerrymandering*** the non-boundary version ***voting***
- Gerrymandering – Wikipedia ***Politics*** ***Gerrymandering*** ***voting***
- gerrymandering | Definition, Litigation, & Facts | Britannica.com[Search domain www.britannica.com/topic/gerrymandering]
- This is the best explanation of gerrymandering you will ever … March 1, 2015 — Washington Post
- Why I appreciate Eminem Lyrics on Aspergers — December 7, 2017 by Jodi Murphy ***Autism***
- ‘Public Punching Bags’ Installed Across Manhattan to Provide Relief to Frustrated New Yorkers By Elias Marat — May 30, 2019 — The mind unleashed — Violence is ok? Violence is accepted? venting. Thus, people expect violence? Training violence or training outlet? ***Violence*** ***Anger*** ***Venting***
- The Smell of the Rain Reduces Stress & 7 Other Benefits of Walking in the Rain — July 6, 2019 by Ivana Saragjinova — on old natural cures — On the real pharmacy (Poor reputation) — on healthy food house — all the sites seem sketch — sources: www.oldnaturalcures.com www.lifealth.com www.footfiles.com ***Stress*** ***Health***
- Also on healthy food house: Napping More Can Improve Your Love Life, Reduce Stress And Much More ***Stress*** ***Nap*** ***Health***
- Also on healthy food house: Treating vertigo — the chocliar crystals — Semont Maneuver, The Half Somersault Maneuver — source WebMD, and theheartysoul.com ***Ear*** ***Dizzy*** ***Health***
- Biology is partly to blame for high rates of mental illness in women – the rest is social — By Professor of Psychiatry, Monash University — August 8, 2017 in The Conversation (Positive reputation) — Gender is a an important determinant of mental health. Naomi August/Unsplash, — “Women are twice as likely to suffer from PTSD than men”. ***Depression*** ***Mental Health*** ***Stress*** ***Womens Issues***
- Trump administration ‘rolling back women’s rights by 50 years’ by changing definitions of domestic violence and sexual assault — January 24, 2019 The Independent (Multiple sources) — occurred in April 2018, but just noticed — What is the new and old definition? ***Consent*** ***Sex*** **Assault*** ***Human Rights*** ***Violence*** ***Trauma*** ***PTSD***
- Vancouver ‘Kink” society locked in legal combat with exiled dungeon master By · CBC News — July 18, 2019 — RE: British Columbia’s anti-SLAPP law (Strategic lawsuit against public participation) libel, and what are the kink privacy rights of partners and participants. — Legal vs community standards and agreements. ***Sex*** ***Kink*** ***Privacy*** ***consent***
- How to teach young kids about consent By Patrick A. Coleman fatherly — July 9, 2019 — Parenting: Teaching a kid about consent has nothing to do with teaching them about sex. It’s about respecting boundaries. ***CONSENT*** ***Kids*** ***Children***
- Also Compare to TEA,
- and Forced hugs at family events.
- Why you procrastinate (It has nothing to do with self-control) : If procrastination isn’t about lazyness, what is it about? By
- “Free tenats’ rights workshop aims to educate and empower renters.” — this article was in July 24 2019 nola.curbed.com– Search for the Louisiana and NOLA tennant rights bullet sheet. ***Human Rights*** ***Housing***
- Photos: Rave culture’s golden era was all about ‘Peace, Love, Unity, Respect’ Capturing EDM back when it was P.L.U.R. by Rian Dundon — September 24, 2016 — Timeline ***Rave*** ***Sex*** ***Human Rights*** ***Partying*** ***Fun*** ***Music***
- 22 Photos That Show Just How Insane ’90s Rave Culture Really WasPeace. Love. Unity. Respect by Gabriel H. Sanchez — Buzzfeed — November 23, 2015
- ***Rave*** ***Sex*** ***Human Rights*** ***Partying*** ***Fun*** ***Music***
- Good: How to Give your partner the best at home massage ever: a rubdown this good can lead to great things: How to Give Your Partner a Massage They’ll Never Forget By — July 23, 2019 Oprah Magazine ***Massage*** ***Sex*** ***Romance***
- Others? — Eros?
- Foreplay: 9 Tips for Giving Your Partner the Hottest Massage Ever: Try one of these moves ASAP. By — July 21, 2017 Cosmopolitan ***Massage*** ***Sex*** ***Romance*** ***Kink***
- Crap: How to Give the Best Massage Ever (That Will Definitely Lead to Sex) — Zahra Barnes — January 5, 2015 — Glamour ***Massage*** ***Sex*** ***Romance*** ***Kink**
- Good: How To Give Your Partner A Massage Like A Professional By Amanda Chatel — January 23,2018 — Bustle ***Massage*** ***Sex*** ***Romance***
- Others? — Eros?
- People-Pleasing can be a result of trauma. Its called ‘fawning’ — here’s how to recognize it. By Sam Dylan Finch — June 1, 2019 — From: Lets Queer things up ***TRAUMA*** ***PTSD*** ***Assault***
- Female Samurai Warriors Immortalized in 19th Century Japanese Photos — January 27th, 2017 — Open Culture ***Strong Women*** ***Womens Issues***
- 15 Habits of people with concealed depression By — July 5, 2017 — Awareness act — ***Depression*** ***Mental Health***
- Ignoring sexual assault victims is the best way to make them go away By Stephen Mitchell, Esq — June 4, 2019 — We won’t be silenced ***Rideshare*** ***Trauma*** ***sexual assault***
- Review multiple links provided searching with that phrase
- Living with a man who has aspergers/autism By Janey Godley — January 28, 2016 — Medium ***Autism***
- Can Meat Actually Save The Planet?: We’ve been told our consumption of meat is destroying the environment. But the real issue is meat production, not meat itself. Regenerative farming could be the answer. By — July 18, 2019 — Huffpost — Ongoing discussion of saving the planet with old school animal rearing vs feed farms — There is some controversy, but also some evidence pro as well. ***Environment*** ***Diet*** ***Vegan***
- Also share the guy that started this in Africa and his ted talk. Though his discussions are the ones that are more controversial
- 2006
- Also other results from search?
- 6 ways allies still marginalize people of color : and what to do instead — February 27, 2016 — Mashable ***Racism*** ***Trauma***
- Is she Madly in Love with you, or just a bartender doing her Job? — By Mark Hassenfratz | July 20, 2019 — The hard times ***Sex*** ***Romance*** ***Dating*** ***Consent***
- Compare to training both unspoken, but also in this movie showing the times around 2001: Sidewalks of New York (2001) — Currently on Netflix — Heck, most movies have shown changes in culture over the years. ***Sex*** ***Romance*** ***Dating*** ***Consent***
- Dating over the years has changed. Both flirting in general, but also in seeking love and sex. One major change was the wedding ring. Not wearing one does not mean “looking” or available like in times past.
- Interesting product. . . Mom Creates seat belt covers that warn emergency workers about children’s health issues, and they’re great (i.e. autism) — June 17, 2019 — Newsner — and other sites — available at Personalised By Nat. ***Autism*** ***Mental Health*** ***Kids*** ***children***
- NO — ***Consent*** ***Trauma*** ***PTSD*** ***Mental Health***
- It is an act of love for me to say no: Say no without explaining yourself. By Kelsey Grant — January 26, 2014 — Radical Self Love
- Learning To Say No Without Explaining Yourself: Freeing power of learning to say no
- Learn To Say No Without Explaining Yourself — May 2018
- Conflict! What to Do and What Not to DoAll relationships have conflict. Conflicts are a part of life and can provide an opportunity for learning and growth — if they are approached with caring for yourself and the other person. By — May 4, 2013 — Huffpost
- Trying to find the one about us not saying no because we are avoiding conflict. (Unless these address that)
- Bystander effect… The bystander effect, or bystander apathy, is a social psychological phenomenon in which individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim when other people are present. The greater the number of bystanders, the less likely it is that any one of them will help. Several factors contribute to the bystander effect, including ambiguity, cohesiveness, and diffusion of responsibility. ***Consent*** ***Trauma*** ***Community***
- Bystander effect – Wikipedia
- Bystander Effect | Psychology Today
- What Is the Bystander Effect? – Verywell Mind
- Bystander Effect – Definition, Examples & Experiment …
- Poor conflict avoidance: ***Consent*** ***Trauma*** ***PTSD*** ***Mental Health***
- 7 Signs You’re Chronically Conflict-Avoidant By JR Thorpe —
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How to Stop Avoiding Conflict: When there’s a tough issue at hand, we run away, avoid, screen calls, pretend to change addresses – basically do anything besides talk. : 13 tips on how to stop avoiding conflict and tackle those tough conversations By Ellen Hendriksen, PhD,Savvy Psychologist April 4, 2014 — Quick and dirty tips
- Conflict Avoidance: It Doesn’t Make the Problem Go Away — June 26, 2016 — McVey Management Solutions
- 1800respect — Australian Violence and abuse support hotline 1800 737 732 — 1800 555 677 — 000 For immediate help (i.e. 911)
- Police problems: drench a cop with water — Why and why not… (Look from both sides) Check out July 23 News talk 99.5 WRNO Facebook page and the Iheart link — Conservitive view. ***Racism***
- Death Mask…. From a young woman who drowned in the River Seine in the 1880’s put on display in the Paris mortuary a custom to help identify the individual. The pathologist on duty became entranced by the girl with the enigmatic half smile, and so he comissiones a plaster cast…. replicated many times over, became known as “L’inconnue de la seine” or “The unknown woman of the seine”. In 1955 a toymaker names Asmund Laerdal created the present day CPR doll … She has the most kissed face of all time. Credit: The Chirgueon’s Apprentice
- Uber and Lyft? ***Rideshare***
- Perspectives — Uber and lyft drivers run their own businesses? Give me a break by lawrence mishel — July 24, 2019 (CNN) — Don’t have the rights and freedoms of business owners
- Don’t feel ashamed of doing “CHILDISH” things
•buy toys/dolls/crayons
•play with Legos
•play old videogames/dress up games
•weave friendship bracelets
•watch cartoons
•use stickers
•draw pics of your favorite characters
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If it makes you feel nice, do it.
Don’t even worry about what other people think, because it doesn’t matter–if it brings you happiness, it’s not “ridiculous”, or “immature”.You deserve to enjoy yourself.
i.e.
“Growing up doesn’t mean you can’t have Zebra Cakes. Growing up simply means that, if you want to have Zebra Cakes, you buy them for yourself.”
Looking for a wood sleeve to line a hole drilled for running a line (rope, cord, electrical, networking), not the 2+ inch desk holes. Found hafele, sleeve, cablerail (too small–only for metal rope for decking), insert, nicopress stop sleeve,
Figure drawing Las Vegas (January 2017 – Las Vegas Review Journal)